10 tips for leaving your dog home alone
, by Michael van Wassem, 4 min reading time
Leaving a dog home alone isn't easy for everyone. Some dogs handle it well, while others become stressed, bark, or even exhibit destructive behavior. Whether you're just starting to leave your dog alone or your dog is already struggling, the right approach can help you build your dog's trust. In this blog post, we share 10 practical tips – from the first training sessions to helping with separation anxiety.
1. Start with very short periods
Don't leave your dog alone for an hour right away. Start with just a few seconds, while you're walking out the door. Come back quickly before your dog gets restless. Repeat this regularly, gradually increasing the time. This way, your dog learns that you'll always come back.
2. Create a safe and pleasant place
Create a calm space where your dog feels comfortable, such as a crate, blanket, or basket. Perhaps place a worn shirt of yours there (with your scent) and some safe chew toys or a stuffed lick mat. This will help your dog associate the space with relaxation.
3. Make sure you get enough exercise beforehand
A dog that's expended its energy is often calmer. So, first take a brisk walk or let your dog sniff and play. This will help them relax while staying home.
4. Give something to do
Provide enrichment during your absence. Think of a stuffed Kong , a lick mat , a snuffle mat , or food puzzles . This will distract your dog and make being alone less boring.
5. Be calm when leaving and returning
Avoid strong emotions when you leave or come home. Ignore your dog briefly when you leave and only greet him again when he's calm. This way, you teach him that your departure and return are perfectly normal.
6. Practice being alone even when you are at home
Sometimes leave your dog in a different room while you're home. Close a door or use a gate. This way, your dog learns that being apart is okay, without you actually leaving the house.
7. Use background noise
A radio, soothing music, or white noise can help dampen ambient sounds. This gives some dogs a sense of security and prevents them from being startled by every little sound.
8. Never punish your dog for panicking or destructive behavior
If you come home and find something broken or your dog has urinated out of stress, don't punish him. Punishment increases fear and uncertainty and doesn't solve the problem. Focus on training, calm, and positive associations.
9. Consider behavioral therapy for severe problems
Does your dog already have separation anxiety? Then it's important to seek professional help. A canine behavior therapist can create a personalized plan based on your dog's pace and needs. In some cases, temporary medication from your veterinarian can also help.
10. Rule out medical causes
If your dog suddenly can't be left alone, it's important to rule out medical causes. Think of pain, incontinence, or neurological problems. If in doubt, always have this checked by your vet.
Additional tips for dogs who already have difficulty being alone:
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Use a camera to observe your dog while you're away. This way, you can see exactly what's happening.
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Start over from the beginning , even if your dog is an adult. Behavioral change takes time, patience, and repetition.
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Avoid triggers , such as grabbing keys or putting on shoes, by doing this even when you're not leaving.
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Try supplements or pheromones , such as Adaptil, after consulting a specialist.
Finally
Every dog is different. Some learn to stay home alone quickly, while others need months. Give your dog time, practice slowly and gradually, and be gentle with yourself if it doesn't work right away. Need some personalized advice or are you stuck? Feel free to contact us – we're happy to help!
